Combination

ive been wondering these days , and i realized that one of the hardest things to achieve is to combine the right attitudes to not hurt anyone around and the right attitudes to not hurt ourselves
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(& at this moment , & as far as i can see, this suits to 3 distinct situations)

i'm tryin'

Oasis - 15Fev.


& goin' on :

u see , we usually think : we will do whatever it takes to help that Person, to make the Person happy at some moment, to do not hurt the Person , and for that we give almost evrything , we push the hardest we can. And after , feeling gratitude or not from the Person (but specially if not) we instinctly wonder how the reverse happens : when will we feel that we can be the Person to that first Person, when do we receive it too ( and not in order to fufil their duty , but in a natural and genuine way). But we often think : we shouldnt demand that , and so we keep on trying , we keep on bein' there and pretending we dont wanna somthing back , but the truth (and this is more and more clear to me now) is that we want it! more than this : the truth is that we need it !
and we can't denie it , we can't ignore and close our eyes and say 'ill pass'

but the problem persists .If we , after that understanding, try to show 'our side' to anothers , try to give a hint about our needs , a conflit of ' who actually needs more attention/patience/comprehension and blabla (i know its all LAME ) ' willl show up (always does) .. even without verbalizing it , cause its something that we can feel comin' from the Person , something we do see and feel

'cause after all , no one understands anyone , for real: theirs needs, their wishes ! Despite we didnt want it , we didnt mean to be like this

Humans ...
Why can't I become a stone .. or some kinda of non-living 'thing'?
Please